It’s not complicated…and don’t be fooled into thinking it is. People are not too busy; you are not a priority. From a business perspective, I’ve seen purchasers, sponsors hunt you down when you have something they want vs. you chasing them when you have something they are lukewarm about. If there is a match of interest, you don’t have a problem.
From a relationship perspective, not much different – lukewarm, unsure people will take your mental energy. If someone can’t see you, too busy to make contact, underneath the myriad of reasons why, lies that unsurety or lack of interest. In business, showing how something can be beneficial to the other party is a good strategy and often works if you can paint a clear picture of the benefits. In relationships your best bet is to walk away. Cut your losses and leave. The initial hurt will be nothing compared to enduring the pain of being with someone who does not truly appreciate you. If they can’t see your worth, leave. Employing a business strategy is a losing battle here.
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