When great things happen to us sometimes we want to hold on tightly fearing that any loosening will leave space for escape. Sometimes we think we can never regain anything close to those moments. It’s not true. Fear forces us to hold tight. I invite you to look at the situation in a different way – what’s meant to be in your life will be there. If something floats away, either it was not meant to be there (making room for a better fit) or circumstances of the universe will lead to paths crossing again. Maybe the initial timing was not ideal; maybe growth needs to occur; you step away to re-engage in an even better experience.
When you shift your thinking in this way, a loss does not sadden…so no need for vice-like grips. Sit back and let the universe do its work. Stop worrying. Let your mind be easy and trust that things will always work out exactly as they are supposed to…
Little Notes on Life 